She was/is my best friend, but she broke the number one rule and
whent out with my ex boyfriend. We had been dating for almost half
a year when we broke up. He called us both wh*res, b*tches, sl*tts
you name it. Then one day I come to school and I am hat seems
like the last to know that they are going out. She never even
asked me if I was ok with it! I know what this boy can do, he tries
to get you away from your friends. He's territorial and
obsessive- controlling. An attention seeker. He tries to guilt
you into things and pressures you to do more. And yet he said that
he had allways loved her, and she believes him. She told me that it
wouldnt get in the way of our friendship. I faked a smile and whent
along with it. I just wanted her to be happy I had warned her but
there was no changing her mind. Well my bday is coming up and
she had promised to sit with me for lunch because we will not be
seeing each other on my bday and this lunch was going to mean a lot
to me. Her boyfriend my ex was welcome to sit with us as he allways
is (which he almost never does). But today he got mad at her (as
allways happens for the most random things so the girl spends their
relationship trying to make him happy) and somehow me, so he
wouldnt sit with us and he sat away. My friend thought that she
could make him happier by sitting with him after she had promised
to sit with me. I know this example sounds childish but this has
happened so many other times, but she keeps chosing him (boyfriend
for 2 months) over her friends and her best friend myself as of
over three years. Im tired and I dont know what to do. I feel
humiliated and Im holding so much back- I can barely talk to her
anymore! I dont know what to
do, can someone please give me advice?