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where am i at now
@nah
@nah
im going to see him in concert
"holla" is just slang
theyre pronounced differently
like you actually thought it was necessary
o k
(wtf is up with the tags u r so d u m b)
like you actually thought it was necessary
My job isn't to educate, Google is a resource and that's how any other person should do it. People of color are always having to "educate" about our experiences of racial prejudices and discrimination and our time is always being demanded from us. If I wanted to educate, I would write an essay on the topic and post it for you to read. But for the moment, this is a quote that was made for other women in color (and women in general) to relate to.
I'm no "advocate" for a minority, I am a minority. I am a person of color that isn't here to teach my experiences down to a primitive level for those who are "curious" and would only like to hear of our story as a sideshow. If you really would like to know more and learn of my history, you can Google it where you could find plenty of essays and books written by those who are willing to spread our culture.
I can see what you mean about it being a subconsciously done thing and if that is the case that would be exactly why I've never heard it as it isn't spoken about where I live and also just plain out doesn't occur because of population demographics.
I'm sorry this got so out of hand, I hope we can just agree to forgive and forget and move on with both of our lives.
I'm not even originally from SoCal I lived in a very small Welsh village before with a population that was entirely white, so I'm not very aware of issues like this as I have not met many people exposed to them. I asking you to educate me. I wasn't stating it "makes me uncomfortable" because it doesn't, and you are continuing to misunderstand why I said chill out (I can see now perhaps that was not the best word choice).
Also, that apology, which was a genuine apology that you are choosing to trivialise for a reason I do not understand, was made at 2 in the morning when I had two thumbs down and you had three up.
Thats all I have left to say.
I do not care if you respond as I have said multiple times that I was only trying to understand something I am not exposed to.
As such an advocate for minorities, I'd think you'd be all for educating people of your cause rather than berating them for asking you to.
Goodbye.
My job isn't to educate, Google is a resource and that's how any other person should do it. People of color are always having to "educate" about our experiences of racial prejudices and discrimination and our time is always being demanded from us. If I wanted to educate, I would write an essay on the topic and post it for you to read. But for the moment, this is a quote that was made for other women in color (and women in general) to relate to.
I'm no "advocate" for a minority, I am a minority. I am a person of color that isn't here to teach my experiences down to a primitive level for those who are "curious" and would only like to hear of our story as a sideshow. If you really would like to know more and learn of my history, you can Google it where you could find plenty of essays and books written by those who are willing to spread our culture.
I can see what you mean about it being a subconsciously done thing and if that is the case that would be exactly why I've never heard it as it isn't spoken about where I live and also just plain out doesn't occur because of population demographics.
I'm sorry this got so out of hand, I hope we can just agree to forgive and forget and move on with both of our lives.
bc I can't I'm in a w e
I think everyone thinks he cute tho
(here I am though this whole time misspelling his name)
he is so fine though
even my mom agrees
bc I can't I'm in a w e
I think everyone thinks he cute tho
(here I am though this whole time misspelling his name)
not to mention the fact that i shouldn't have to "chill out a little" over a micro aggression that I have to face daily. obviously I have heard it multiple times and for you to try to diminish a problem that WOC face daily to a "did this really happen or not???" thing is inconsiderate.
i really was only asking a question. i didnt mean to make anyone mad.
seems thats the only thing im good at on this website is accidentally upsetting people
i didnt know that quote was about you until i went back and looked at it just now because you mentioned it.
i was asking a question. at my school the population is 90% hispanic and about 5% white (this are actual statistics from our school's annual report which includes a section on percentage of each race) so perhaps, because of the majority of people i'm surrounded by being people who are not white meaning a majority of the girls guys are dating where i live arent either, is why i have never heard it.
i wasnt trying to suggest it doesnt happen, i was saying ive just never heard it and i was attempting to ask you to educate me a bit on it but im sorry you took it the wrong way.
i can see no matter what i say you are going to think i was trying to be rude. by chill out i meant please dont be so rude to me when im trying to be civil with you, again im sorry you misunderstood me i could have been more clear.
im going to leave now because this isnt going to go anywhere other than you continuing to get mad at me.
I'm not even originally from SoCal I lived in a very small Welsh village before with a population that was entirely white, so I'm not very aware of issues like this as I have not met many people exposed to them. I asking you to educate me. I wasn't stating it "makes me uncomfortable" because it doesn't, and you are continuing to misunderstand why I said chill out (I can see now perhaps that was not the best word choice).
Also, that apology, which was a genuine apology that you are choosing to trivialise for a reason I do not understand, was made at 2 in the morning when I had two thumbs down and you had three up.
Thats all I have left to say.
I do not care if you respond as I have said multiple times that I was only trying to understand something I am not exposed to.
As such an advocate for minorities, I'd think you'd be all for educating people of your cause rather than berating them for asking you to.
Goodbye.
My job isn't to educate, Google is a resource and that's how any other person should do it. People of color are always having to "educate" about our experiences of racial prejudices and discrimination and our time is always being demanded from us. If I wanted to educate, I would write an essay on the topic and post it for you to read. But for the moment, this is a quote that was made for other women in color (and women in general) to relate to.
I'm no "advocate" for a minority, I am a minority. I am a person of color that isn't here to teach my experiences down to a primitive level for those who are "curious" and would only like to hear of our story as a sideshow. If you really would like to know more and learn of my history, you can Google it where you could find plenty of essays and books written by those who are willing to spread our culture.
I can see what you mean about it being a subconsciously done thing and if that is the case that would be exactly why I've never heard it as it isn't spoken about where I live and also just plain out doesn't occur because of population demographics.
I'm sorry this got so out of hand, I hope we can just agree to forgive and forget and move on with both of our lives.
not to mention the person who originally made this comic is white tho so idk why kind of disillusioned world you're living in
ill ask the person who made the comic. thanks for being mean to me when i was asking just trying to get a better perception of where it was coming from because every single other thing in this is something i've heard someone say but that wasn't.
chill out a little.
not to mention the fact that i shouldn't have to "chill out a little" over a micro aggression that I have to face daily. obviously I have heard it multiple times and for you to try to diminish a problem that WOC face daily to a "did this really happen or not???" thing is inconsiderate.
i really was only asking a question. i didnt mean to make anyone mad.
seems thats the only thing im good at on this website is accidentally upsetting people
i didnt know that quote was about you until i went back and looked at it just now because you mentioned it.
i was asking a question. at my school the population is 90% hispanic and about 5% white (this are actual statistics from our school's annual report which includes a section on percentage of each race) so perhaps, because of the majority of people i'm surrounded by being people who are not white meaning a majority of the girls guys are dating where i live arent either, is why i have never heard it.
i wasnt trying to suggest it doesnt happen, i was saying ive just never heard it and i was attempting to ask you to educate me a bit on it but im sorry you took it the wrong way.
i can see no matter what i say you are going to think i was trying to be rude. by chill out i meant please dont be so rude to me when im trying to be civil with you, again im sorry you misunderstood me i could have been more clear.
im going to leave now because this isnt going to go anywhere other than you continuing to get mad at me.
I'm not even originally from SoCal I lived in a very small Welsh village before with a population that was entirely white, so I'm not very aware of issues like this as I have not met many people exposed to them. I asking you to educate me. I wasn't stating it "makes me uncomfortable" because it doesn't, and you are continuing to misunderstand why I said chill out (I can see now perhaps that was not the best word choice).
Also, that apology, which was a genuine apology that you are choosing to trivialise for a reason I do not understand, was made at 2 in the morning when I had two thumbs down and you had three up.
Thats all I have left to say.
I do not care if you respond as I have said multiple times that I was only trying to understand something I am not exposed to.
As such an advocate for minorities, I'd think you'd be all for educating people of your cause rather than berating them for asking you to.
Goodbye.
My job isn't to educate, Google is a resource and that's how any other person should do it. People of color are always having to "educate" about our experiences of racial prejudices and discrimination and our time is always being demanded from us. If I wanted to educate, I would write an essay on the topic and post it for you to read. But for the moment, this is a quote that was made for other women in color (and women in general) to relate to.
I'm no "advocate" for a minority, I am a minority. I am a person of color that isn't here to teach my experiences down to a primitive level for those who are "curious" and would only like to hear of our story as a sideshow. If you really would like to know more and learn of my history, you can Google it where you could find plenty of essays and books written by those who are willing to spread our culture.
I can see what you mean about it being a subconsciously done thing and if that is the case that would be exactly why I've never heard it as it isn't spoken about where I live and also just plain out doesn't occur because of population demographics.
I'm sorry this got so out of hand, I hope we can just agree to forgive and forget and move on with both of our lives.
> "I ? ? ? can ? ? ? handle ? ? ? criticism ?? ? hence ? why ? ? I post quotes"
yes u can v much handle criticism from what you have displayed so far
its not really a battle of the sexes when men are always the dominant as far as social constructs
no one is saying that fashion cant be your niche but fashion is always such a male dominated field (much like everything else in society) even though there is so so so many women who are interested in fashion as well
not only that people (no matter which gender) are always quick to critique women because they arent holding up to what is "fashionable" (code word for likeable to society) and when a male reinforces what is likeable to society it is a real sh/t thing to do because women are always having to hold up to those expectations
but seeing as you really cant handle criticism and since you are sexist, i think youre doing me more of a favor than yourself by trying to end this little shindig
so goodbye to you too and i hope you choose to rethink this topic you decided you had the authority to touch on
the reason why people have to use homophobic slurs like the f-word is because people claim that anything that has to do with fashion is for girls which all stems back to sexist roots
and even though a majority of the fashion field are women, male designers still get most of the light because society places a higher importance of the role of male spots in /any/ field
yes its a problem that men who truly love fashion are shamed for it but honestly youre turning this into a whole different problem, as i have never once shamed you as a male for liking fashion
the original problem is that you as a man are giving out unsolicited advice to women as to how women should handle their body
and as a white male who benefits from both white and male privilege, your advice for women isnt exactly wanted
you are sexist, you just called me a b*tch for calling out the sexism in this quote
seeing from your other quotes, you back up tyler oakley who happens to be a r*cist , so need i say more about your problematic content that youve posted?
as a Black woman, let me say that youre opinions on both womens and "african-american" rights are complete bullsh/t and unwanted
because as a privileged white male, you wouldnt be able to compare to the stigma it is as a black person
brah im immature because i called out the sexism in your quote?
sounds like youre just salty because someone finally decided to read between the lines of this quote and publicly critique it
this is the last comment ill add because i dont really think youre catching on to the whole idea as to how this fashion quote was very women-shaming/sexist but as ive already stated before i hope you decide to look deeper into what you said and find how this content you posted is a bit sexist
I’ve been stalking Tyler Oakley, for a matter of fact, and I know he loves Kingsley. If you don’t know him, Kingsley is black. You can of course counter with 'that doesn't mean he isn't a rac!st ' - well, that doesn't mean he /is/ either.
I don’t think this post is unwanted. I would gladly read his opinions and judging from the amount of favorites he has gotten, so do others.
I know you said you won't respond anymore, and you probably don't like it that I'm interfering -- oh well.
2.) You think I can't relate to the stigma black people get? I'm bisexual. I'm part of one of the most targeted groups in history, the LGBT community. I get hate daily from complete strangers over the internet for simply loving men. I cannot even begin to tell you what it feels like. Don't you DARE tell me I have equal rights in this country. I walk down the street every day with a fear that someone will attack me for simply being bisexual. You know the best part? I haven't even come out of the closet. People merely assume.
3.) There is no sexism in this quote, some of the most recognized fashion designers in history are women. This is simply saying what I believe is fashion. Do you want me to post a quote regarding male fashion? Fine. I will, I'll go write one right now. Will you leave me alone about being "sexist" then? Or will you verbally attack me for believing that men have to dress a certain way also?
the moment you think you can decide what to do with a womans body (which includes giving out unsolicited "fashion" advice) is the moment youre exerting your male privilege simply because you dont like how a woman dresses
if you didnt want criticism on your quotes then dont post it??? like all quotes are public, all quotes are going to appear on the stream and if you know your quotes get a ton of likes then you know its going to get on the top quotes
if you cant handle the criticism then ? ? ? dont ?? ? post ?? ? quotes ? ?
> "I ? ? ? can ? ? ? handle ? ? ? criticism ?? ? hence ? why ? ? I post quotes"
yes u can v much handle criticism from what you have displayed so far
its not really a battle of the sexes when men are always the dominant as far as social constructs
no one is saying that fashion cant be your niche but fashion is always such a male dominated field (much like everything else in society) even though there is so so so many women who are interested in fashion as well
not only that people (no matter which gender) are always quick to critique women because they arent holding up to what is "fashionable" (code word for likeable to society) and when a male reinforces what is likeable to society it is a real sh/t thing to do because women are always having to hold up to those expectations
but seeing as you really cant handle criticism and since you are sexist, i think youre doing me more of a favor than yourself by trying to end this little shindig
so goodbye to you too and i hope you choose to rethink this topic you decided you had the authority to touch on
the reason why people have to use homophobic slurs like the f-word is because people claim that anything that has to do with fashion is for girls which all stems back to sexist roots
and even though a majority of the fashion field are women, male designers still get most of the light because society places a higher importance of the role of male spots in /any/ field
yes its a problem that men who truly love fashion are shamed for it but honestly youre turning this into a whole different problem, as i have never once shamed you as a male for liking fashion
the original problem is that you as a man are giving out unsolicited advice to women as to how women should handle their body
and as a white male who benefits from both white and male privilege, your advice for women isnt exactly wanted
you are sexist, you just called me a b*tch for calling out the sexism in this quote
seeing from your other quotes, you back up tyler oakley who happens to be a r*cist , so need i say more about your problematic content that youve posted?
as a Black woman, let me say that youre opinions on both womens and "african-american" rights are complete bullsh/t and unwanted
because as a privileged white male, you wouldnt be able to compare to the stigma it is as a black person
brah im immature because i called out the sexism in your quote?
sounds like youre just salty because someone finally decided to read between the lines of this quote and publicly critique it
this is the last comment ill add because i dont really think youre catching on to the whole idea as to how this fashion quote was very women-shaming/sexist but as ive already stated before i hope you decide to look deeper into what you said and find how this content you posted is a bit sexist
I’ve been stalking Tyler Oakley, for a matter of fact, and I know he loves Kingsley. If you don’t know him, Kingsley is black. You can of course counter with 'that doesn't mean he isn't a rac!st ' - well, that doesn't mean he /is/ either.
I don’t think this post is unwanted. I would gladly read his opinions and judging from the amount of favorites he has gotten, so do others.
I know you said you won't respond anymore, and you probably don't like it that I'm interfering -- oh well.
2.) You think I can't relate to the stigma black people get? I'm bisexual. I'm part of one of the most targeted groups in history, the LGBT community. I get hate daily from complete strangers over the internet for simply loving men. I cannot even begin to tell you what it feels like. Don't you DARE tell me I have equal rights in this country. I walk down the street every day with a fear that someone will attack me for simply being bisexual. You know the best part? I haven't even come out of the closet. People merely assume.
3.) There is no sexism in this quote, some of the most recognized fashion designers in history are women. This is simply saying what I believe is fashion. Do you want me to post a quote regarding male fashion? Fine. I will, I'll go write one right now. Will you leave me alone about being "sexist" then? Or will you verbally attack me for believing that men have to dress a certain way also?
look a t the comment i left on this quote though
IM SO FKCN FLAGRANT